Relational design — for events
We know how to build stages.

We've forgotten how to build campfires.

I design modern campfires:
unfiltered human warmth × sharp peer-to-peer insights.

A room full of allies at a Peership event
Trusted by
Adobe Design Leadership Toronto Metropolitan University Clarkson University Canadian Women's Chamber of Commerce York University Mark Evans Consulting Georgian EventStream Nugget Blade Filters AtomicX Arfront RedPine Green Campus Cooperative Raluca Candy Cutlery Tbird Oh! Swiggle Medhouse Call Ocutherapy Pranga & Co T WAY Youth Empowerment Podcast A/T
Proximity isn't engagement

Redesign your event around relationship-building

I bridge the gap between "being in the room" and "feeling like you belong."

Together, we turn your standard conference schedule into an unforgettable, collective experience where your attendees find their people.

The old playbook
  • Polite handshakes
  • Business cards
  • Exhausting small talk
  • A room full of strangers
The modern campfire
  • Real rapport
  • Deep relationships
  • Memorable conversations
  • A community of belonging
The brief

The questions we solve together

Networking

How do we stop networking from feeling fake and forced?

Belonging

How do we turn hundreds or even thousands of strangers into trusted allies?

Retention

How do we design an experience that makes attendees immediately rebook?

Sponsorships

How do we give sponsors real relationships instead of dead booths?

The impact

Three unfair advantages of relational design

01

Stronger relationships

Typical networking is surface-level and connections fade quickly.

We build sticky bonds between attendees that turn brief encounters into long-term relationships.

02

Deeper learning

Information overload is real. 90% of talks are forgotten within a week.

We make content stick. By giving audiences space to digest, debate, and apply key ideas, we 5x long-term cognitive recall.

03

Greater ROI

Content attracts. Belonging retains.

High-trust environments directly drive repeat registrations, organic word-of-mouth, and high-value sponsor renewal.

Attendees in conversation at round tables
Work with me

How we can work together

Three ways to turn a room of strangers into allies.

Conference Relationship Design
01 · RELATIONAL ARCHITECTURE

Attendee Journey

We re-examine your attendees’ journey—from registration to the closing session—to intentionally spark natural, high-trust human connection.

02 · STANDALONE SESSIONS

Relationship-Building Experiences

Facilitated moments that help people skip the superficialities and build the kind of rapport that sticks. This can run as a single deep-dive session for a selective summit, or as one activation built from coordinated interactive sessions across a large-scale conference.

Relationship-Building Experiences
Keynote Speaking
03 · Speaking

Interactive Keynote

A keynote that shifts the atmosphere of the whole room — often rated the highest hour of the conference. I deconstruct how human connection actually works, then let your audience experience it live, so they've genuinely met one another by the time I step off stage.

Testimonials
I can confidently say that this was the most impactful conference I’ve ever been to.
Cybele Grandjean
Associate Creative Director, Apple
What a fantastic conference! Hands down the most connected and intimate experience I’ve had.
Kamdyn Moore
Global Head of R&D, Spotify
Aïko
About

Hi, I'm Aïko

I've spent the last decade running a company that designs and hosts confidential CEO groups.

Watching strangers become trusted advisors to one another made me obsessed with a single question:

How quickly can humans build genuine trust?

Working with thousands of founders and executives, I discovered something surprising: building deep, meaningful relationships doesn't have to take months. With the right structure, the trust and intimacy you'd find around a campfire can happen in a single session.

I bring these same high-trust methodologies to larger-scale events.

I don't just facilitate — I design systems that turn a roomful of strangers into a warm, caring crew of allies.

If you’re running an event and want to be the kind of event people talk about again and again — you absolutely must work with Aïko.

She has my fullest recommendation.
Ryan Rumsey
Speaker, Author & Founder
Case study

Design Leadership Summit

Attendees now treat the Summit as their annual reunion — and leaders return bringing entire teams with them.

Read the case study ⟶

The approach behind all of this has a name: Peership.

Discover Peership
Coming soon
Peer­ship
How to better gather with fellow humans and allies in a world of noise.
AÏKO THURLOW
02 — BOOK

Peership, the book 

Coming soon

For thousands of years, humans gathered around campfires.

Around them, we relaxed. We shared stories. We exchanged wisdom. We learned who we could trust.

Today, we gather in conference halls instead.

Yet the most transformative spaces I've ever experienced—from CEO groups to addiction recovery circles—still follow the same ancient pattern. They don't just gather people. They create the conditions for trust.

I've watched those conversations rewrite careers, reshape corporate decisions, and even save lives.

Peership is an exploration of why they work—and what becomes possible when we bring that power and setting into our organizations, events, and communities.

Let’s make your next event unforgettable.

If you’re planning something and want your attendees to leave deeply connected, I’d love to hear about it.

LET’S BUILD YOUR NEXT CAMPFIRE